Thursday, 14 May 2015

[FACT] 7 Reasons Why Most Nigerian Ladies Are Unmarried

7 Reasons Why Most Nigerian Ladies Are
Unmarried. Brutally Honest Facts

Wanna know why you haven’t met the
man of your dreams? Find out now!

1. Cause You Act Like A B**CH!!!
Yeah I said it, and what! Now I’m not trying to
use that term in a general and disrespectful
way. I am using it in a very specific and factual
way. You have so many women that walk
around with this nasty, stuck up attitude and
they have the nerve to wonder why they
struggle with finding the right man. Some of
them have the audacity to cover it up by
proclaiming to be a “diva”, too “classy”, or that
they are just speaking their mind. In reality you
just act like a b**ch. Some people might say,
well I see plenty of women like that married or
in relationships. Don’t be fooled, she wasn’t
completely showing that side in the beginning,
why? Because she is a smart b**ch : ). Either
way, being a negative person isn’t going to help
you find love. Most of the men may still go after
you for séx, but if you learn to fix that attitude
then you will start to attract the right kind of
man in your life.

2.You Blame Men For Everything
That is why your a*s is still single. You refuse to
make yourself accountable for your actions.
Everything is a man’s fault, and according to
you, once they “act right” then you will have no
problem falling in line. First off, I agree that men
have contributed so much to the issues in
relationships and women in general. We as men
do have a responsibility to step up and do
better. The thing is, if you aren’t willing to “step
up” as well, then we will continue to have an
issue, and you will continue to find yourself by
yourself. At the end of the day, you control how
you handle things. If you are not prepared to
look in the mirror then you will never realize the
flaws you have and that need improvement. So
next time you want to put it all on men, check
yourself, and accept that you have a choice to
do better and truly be one of the “good women”
out there.

3. You Think Your Looks Will Carry You Through
Life
Ok so you’re beautiful and have a nice body,
great! Problem is, if a man talks to you and
finds out that there is nothing else to you then
why would he bother wanting to make you his
woman. He will still want séx (séx is always an
option for men) but that’s it. Men may be more
superficial than women, but most of us still
want a woman who has some kind of
personality. Make yourself a more well-rounded
fun individual and more men will want to make
you their own.

4. You Are A Gold Digger
ok maybe you aren’t exactly on that level, but
you have made how much he makes your top
priority. You are so caught up in naira signs that
you overlook the things that are truly important
to having and maintaining a relationship.
Realize that most men are not rich, so right
there you immediately make it harder for
yourself to find the right guy. Even if a guy has
money, if he sees that’s what you are mainly
about he won’t take you seriously. I’m not
saying date broke men, but I am saying that
money should not be your main motivator. Have
better priorities and you will find yourself in
better relationships.

5. You Don’t Keep Yourself Up
Not that you have to get your nails and hair
done every 2 weeks (though some of us do like
that) but you can’t always look raggedy either. I
mean damn, some of you ladies just put no real
effort into how you look. Not everyone has the
same style, but good hygiene and health should
be a goal for all. Most of us want our woman to
look good. As I stated earlier we men are a bit
more superficial than women, so to grab and
keep our attention you need to be mindful of
how you present yourself. You know where you
can improve your look, so get started on it if you
want to increase your chances of going from
being one of the single “good women” to one of
the taken “good women”.

6. Your s*x Is Weak!
It is best to wait but the
reality is that most of us have or will engage in
séx before we are married. As a woman if you
chose to do that, then understand that your
“skills” or lack thereof will impact a man’s
willingness to make you his woman.
Unfortunately a lot of women think they are
good but really the experience was nothing to
talk about. Women are quick to talk about a
man’s performance while neglecting the fact
that they could use a lot of improvement as
well. It doesn’t take as much to please most
men séxually, so be more open to ways you can
improve if you choose to take that route.

7. Your too busy enjoying the “Single Life”
you’re just having too much fun living it up.
Maybe you like to come and go as you please.
Maybe you enjoy the free meals, outings, and
for some, the bills that get paid from your “guy
friends”. If those are your reasons, I get it, but
just make sure that you aren’t using that as a
front. Many women claim to love the “single
life” but in a heartbeat they would trade it in for
a genuine relationship. Yes, you should enjoy
yourself while you’re single, but that does not
mean you have to act like you enjoy being
single. I hope you understand the difference. If
your attitude or words say “I love being single”
then understand that this will impact a man’s
willingness to come at you with something more
serious. Have fun, but be true to yourself and
what you really desire.

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